How To Deal With Her Tests - Real-life Examples!
I’d like to share with you a some examples that will help you understand even more on How To Deal With Women Tests.
Women are testing men all the time to make sure that the man stays in control. They act bratty and often behave unacceptably, to test if a man is able to stay in control of a given situation and doesn’t lose his composure.
You may hear men in the seduction community calling these tests “sh*t tests”.
Here are two simple techniques to use in those situations and deal with her tests:
1. ACCUSE: Turn her own test against her, accusing her for it.
2. PLAY ALONG: Play along in a way she can’t control you any more [catch the bait (sh*t test) and pull the fisherman (her) in the water]
Both techniques are a matter of reframing. Here are some examples:
Situation A: You approach her and open, and she replies:
HER: How many women have you approached this way?
ACCUSE: Accuse her she is interested, that’s why she is asking:
YOU: Why? Do you want me to show you how to meet girls? Are you bisexual?
PLAY ALONG: Answer casually, but exaggerate. Make her realize that you see the mind games she is playing, but they can’t work on you.
YOU: Thousands.
Or…
YOU: Do you mean this week or this month?
Situation B: She brings sex into conversation to test how comfortable you are with this:
ACCUSE: She tries to catch you frustrated, so accuse HER for being frustrated:
YOU: Why do you talk about sex? Are you frustrated?
PLAY ALONG: Since she brings up “crazy” stuff to challenge you, bring up even crazier stuff:
YOU: What’s the craziest place you’ve ever had sex? What’s your favorite position?
I personally prefer the second technique; you never seem over reactive (=insecure), it’s more playful and it helps the conversation (flirting) going. Some more examples of comebacks, playing along:
HER: Do you men want sex all the time?
YOU: You’ve just discovered something that the rest of women already know (smile, wink).
If you accidentally look at her boobs and she notices it:
HER: Where are you looking at?
YOU: I hope they are boobs, otherwise I’ll have to leave.
Let me know what you think (special thanks to the DTC Expert, Angelo)
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