How To Avoid Boring Conversations
1. Apart from your canned material that you can use to get out of an awkward long pause, these tips are great to keep your conversation going:
(a) Speak slowly. That gives you time to think. In addition, people speaking quickly seem insecure, trying to keep the attention of the audience, so speaking slowly is a demonstration of your confidence.
(b) Be descriptive in your stories. Use all 5 senses: not just the visual picture, but also the sounds, the smell, the feel. Women are not analytical, but emotional beings. Stimulate her emotions and she will be attracted to you. Being descriptive also gives you time to think, the same way speaking slowly does.
(c) Avoid asking Yes / No (close ended) questions, unless you’ve got a great comeback ready for both possible answers (yes / no). These questions tend to end the conversation prematurely. Prefer questions that require description or details. Instead of asking two girls if they are friends, ask them how they know each other. Instead of asking if you would look good in a pink shirt, ask her what color of shirt she thinks it suits you best and why.
(d) Don’t hesitate to make some normal conversation (normal = non teasing): “What’s a good movie you’ve recently watched?”. However, always have something to say about anything you ask, or else you seem like you are forcing conversation: e.g. she may answer “I don’t know”. Instead of forcing her to tell you, talk about a good movie YOU have recently watched an d then ask her again.
2. Avoid these or else you’ll soon bore her to hell:
(a) If you run out of your canned material and your mind is stack, supposing that you’ve already created some kind of bond between you, don’t try too hard to keep the conversation going; women will sense it. If you feel you are stack, be silent for a moment, relax, lay back, sit comfortably. It is sometimes good to let HER re-initiate the conversation.
(b) If she stays silent for uncomfortably long, don’t ask “So?” or “What’s new?”. Prefer questions like: “So you’ve been busy today?” Women will usually start talking about their day (they love talking about themselves). Listen to them carefully and bust on them on something they did, or add a funny or cocky-funny comment in their stories.
(c) Cut the unnecessary sounds of uh, eh, um etc when you’re thinking. People use these sounds to keep attention. (The exact syllable is learned, but the technique is likely hardwired, and it’s different in different languages.) Also cut unnecessary phrases like “you know”. All these display insecurity.
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