Why Conversation Starters?
Why Conversation Starters?
The first step on meeting women is breaking the ice and start a conversation. A woman might need a reason to talk to you. Why? That’s time management. Imagine how many losers approach her every day saying “hey, what’s up” or “you’re hot”. If she pays attention to any single guy talking to her, she will stack there leaving all her business behind.
So what does a woman need to start a conversation with you? Ignition to her interest. You have only 10 seconds to convince her that she will enjoy her time having a conversation with you, or she is gone.
A Conversation Starter does not necessarily reveal any sexual interest, as it’s never enough by itself to win the girl. Conversation Starters are only needed to break the ice, that’s why pickup artists call them “openers”. It may be a simple something you’ve noticed from the environment, or even asking a girl for her opinion on something.
Confidence and humor are a couple of traits that women find attractive on a man. Using a good Conversation Starter reveals signs of these traits on you. If you show enough confidence delivering the line and the line is interesting and/or humorous, then she is open to you. You’ve already convinced her that you are interesting enough, that she would love to have a conversation with you.
If a Conversation Starter is not enough, what else do I need?
Once she is open to you, proceed with something funny you’ve noticed in your environment, or go on with an interesting story or joke related to your opener. This might sound difficult in the beginning, but the more and more you do it, your conversation skills are improving and the procedure becomes automatic, almost subconscious.
After that, she should show some interest in you, even if this is just her smile (come on guys, you can identify a made up smile from a genuine one). This is the time for your compliment. Do not compliment her on her looks, rather than something like her personality, her energy, or her smile: “You have a nice smile! What’s your name?” Don’t ask for her name before that. Do not reward her (i.e. asking for her name = showing too much interest in her) before SHE shows any sign of interest in you. That’s the distinction between the alpha male and the needy wussy.
You may then chat with her a little bit, to make her feel comfortable with you. Ask open ended questions. Talk about things that happened to you related to your questions. Let her relate to your stories. Then go for the digits, or her e-mail: “Hey, you are an interesting person. I’d like to talk to you again”. She should already feel nice with you and she would like to meet you again.
How to deliver a Conversation Starter
Confidence: If you are confident and you deliver the line with enough authority, then you can get away with it. Along with that, be indifferent of the outcome. Stop fearing rejection. Learn from a rejection instead of letting it put you down.
Body language: Pull your elbows back, chest out, and move slowly and steadily. Keep your hands down, relaxed and out of your pockets. Be cool and calm. Women translate this body language as confidence.
Smile: It shows you are an open, outgoing person and you are harmless, approaching her with friendly intentions.
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