Cold Reading for Approaching Women
I’ve recently been studying cold reading, trying to get deeper into this art and science that fortune tellers use.
I was sitting in a café, composing a detailed cold read for women, from a book on cold reading I was reading. I wasn’t sure how accurate my notes were; a great opportunity to ask for a female opinion.
I initially opened the waitress. I made a gesture to her. The thought I wanted to order. She approached me holding her note pad.
ME: I want to show you something.
HER: I am curious…
ME: I know you are 
I am making a study on cold reading. Do you know what cold reading is?
HER: No.
ME: It’s the ability to say accurate things about a person’s life and personality without knowing him / her before, just by first sight.
(I changed the definition to match the situation. The exact definition is: A process by which the reader creates the effect that he or she has the knowledge of an unknown subject’s life: past, present, future).
HER: That’s very interesting! Tell me more.
ME: When I saw you, I took some notes about you. I am still in the process of learning cold reading, so I’d like you to tell me how accurate the things I wrote on this page are.
I showed her the sheet I was taking notes about women, but I told her that I wrote it specifically for her. Lying? I prefer calling it seduction.
She took the sheet and started reading it. She was smiling at the beginning. Seconds later her sight was absorbed in my hand writing. Her friendly smile became a “that’s-impossible” smile. Her eyes opened even more.
ME: Well, how close am I?
HER: I’m not sure if it is 97% or 100%… I am shocked!
The truth is, I opened 7 more sets, including a six-set, and got 85%-100% accuracy.
Here’s the script I used:
Facts:
More comfortable socializing in groups than being alone
Become energized by interaction with other people
Have large circle of friends, but only a few selected, long-time friends
Feel lonely when not in contact with other people for too longPersonality:
Hard working, friendly, kind, honest, problem solver, good at completing tasks, fun to be around, adaptable, cooperative and friendly, capable, good communicator, intuitive, fun oriented as child and playful as partner.
Sensitive to other people’s feelings, put friends and family needs ahead of own, get personal satisfaction from helping others, not always appreciated.
Dislike:
Manipulated by others.
Do things that don’t make sense (even if for the boss they do make sense)
Change without a clear benefit.
This great thing about this cold read is that you open and DHV at the same time.
If she asks how you do it you have two options:
a. Either follow the “wow” way and tell her that every person is perceptive and you just have this sense developed. You are able to sense somebody’s aura and know truths about that person by reading his / her palm or by his / her handwriting or by the tarot cards…
b. …or follow the “honest” way and teach her some basic cold reading, i.e. how the reader observes simple things on his subject, for example color of clothes, jewelry, hairstyle, and the difference of men’s and women’s psychology, e.g. a man is sees himself successful if he has a good job and a good position in society, whereas a woman considers herself successful if she makes a good family.
I’ve tried both. Either way you win.
I’ve also learnt some cold readings about specific categories of women, just to backup my conversation afterwards:
For a very attractive woman:
Possible problems with boss and co-workers crossing the line.
People don’t recognizing her intelligence and other abilities.
Intimates most men.
Viewed by many other women as threat.Outgoing women:
Talkative upon first meeting, maintain strong eye-contact, and smile easily. They wear colorful clothing, shiny jewelry, and bright lipstick.
Ingoing women:
Shy, sometimes self conscious, and have difficulties maintaining eye-contact. They wear earth colors, conservative color schemes. They wear only little make-up and jewelry.
The waitress was wearing a uniform, but just by observing her being talkative and maintaining strong eye-contact, I told her that she likes wearing colorful clothing, shiny jewelry, bright lipstick. She was surprised.
Here’s a great banter line I use after she admits how true the cold reading was:
“You can’t lie to me. You are an open book to me now.”
Magic and NLP also work perfectly, especially if you follow the “wow” way of explanation.
Game is on guys. You don’t need luck; just use your brain!
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Refereces: RICKSHOP.COM – TRADECRAFT, The Art and Science of Cold Reading, 2002
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